Many times we feel parenting is difficult. Yes, it is not an easy thing, but in my view, if we compare our parenting from others, then it becomes difficult, but if we do not compare the parenting style then it is the easiest and simplest thing. Every parent has their own “Secret of Happy Parenting”, I am sharing mine in term of 3C’s.
I took it quite long to understand this, that parenting is an art and it should be as per your own kid’s needs. Someone is doing like this and so you are also expected to do those similar ways is the worst technique of parenting. Every kid has his likes and dislikes, two siblings when they grow up as a mature kid they have different likes and dislikes, then why not kids or toddles will have different likes and dislikes? Try to understand what your kid likes?
So now when I have understood and started following my ways of parenting I am just loving and enjoying every phase of it.
The simple advice, do follow your heart in parenting and not others who look perfect parents to you. They may be a perfect parent for their kids, but may not be for yours.
Let us see the concept of 3C’s – Care, Communication and Confidence.
Care: There is no double that you as a parent do not care about your kids, but the important point here is that you need to show that you care for their happiness and well being, for their success and their goals. Kids know and understand that they are being cared and once they feel so, you are a successful parent.
Communication: This is another most important things because talking always breaks the barriers and we get to know what is actually going on in your kid’s mind. Also, the kid starts feeling special because they feel that they are being heard and understood. They will start sharing thing which is important for parents to know.
Confidence: As a parent, you should have confidence in your child and let them know that you have full faith in them that they will always do what is correct and when you will teach them this from the very beginning they will always choose the correct path because they do not want to let you down and spoil their image in your eyes. But, you have to keep monitoring and telling them if they are doing something wrong.
Do not forget to share your Parenting secrets, I would love yo hear from you all.
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